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RUTH LAY STABLER
 
 (1920 - 2009) 
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RemembranceThe marker for Ruth Lay Stabler is not a grave, but a marker in remembrance of her life.
 
 
Obituary
RUTH EDRAS LAY STABLER (26 Nov 1920 - 07 Sep 2009)
Ruth Lay Stabler - ca. 1950 OBITUARY: 03 September 2009
Ruth Lay Stabler was the second of five children born to Lawrence and Berta Bailey Lay November 26, 1920 in Enid, Oklahoma, and died September 7, 2009 in West Melbourne, Florida. She graduated from Britton High School and Central State College and did graduate work at the University of Oklahoma.
Following a teaching career in Carter County in Oklahoma, she was a communications instructor during World War II at Scott Field, Illinois, where she met her future husband, Edward W. Stabler from Lancaster, Pennsylvania.

A gifted artist, Ruth's proudest achievement was her "five wonderful children." Ruth and Ed raised their family in Mount Holly, New Jersey, and Indian Harbour Beach, Florida, where Ed's work took them.

She was preceded in death by her parents; her husband; her son, Doug; one sister, Margaret Lay Young; and one brother, Bob Lay. She is survived by one son,; three daughters; and six grandchildren. She is also survived by two sisters: Kathryn and Frances; and her lifelong best friend, Jean Tallant.

Private interment will be at Olive Hill Cemetery in Oklahoma City.
 
 
Ruth Lay Stabler - ca. 2002
2 sons 3 daughters
Currently no information about this STABLER family can be found on-line.
Genealogy:
Family of Ruth Lay Stabler
 
Generation No. 1

 

2.  Edward Walter Stabler, Sr. is the son of Richard Hallett Stabler & Phoebe Louisa Strode. He was born on 22 Nov 1918 in Lancaster, PA. He died on 17 May 1975 in Tampa, FL.

3.  Ruth Edras Lay is the daughter of Lawrence Lay & Alberta Blanche Bailey. She was born on 26 Nov 1920 in Enid, OK. She died on 07 Sep 2009 in West Melbourne, Brevard Co, FL. Obituary on 09 Sep 2009 (Daily Oklahoman). Burial in Olive Hill Cemetery [45S], Oklahoma City, OK.

Edward Walter Stabler, Sr. & Ruth Edras Lay. They were married on 13 Sep 1946 in Lancaster, PA. They had 5 children.

  i. Douglas Michael Stabler1. He was born on 31 Jul 1947 in Oklahoma City, OK. He died on 06 Jul 2002 in Arlington Park, IL. Also Known As was Doug.

  ii. Living Stabler.

  iii. Living Stabler.

  iv. Living Stabler.

  v. Living Stabler.

 
Generation No. 2

 

4.  Richard Hallett Stabler is the son of Tarleton Brooke Stabler & Rebecca Thomas Moore. He was born Oct 1895 in MD.

5.  Phoebe Louisa Strode. She was born on 10 Sep 1895 in PA2. She died on 20 Jan 1988 in West Chester, Chester, PA.

   Richard Hallett Stabler & Phoebe Louisa Strode. They were married on 08 Mar 1917. They had 2 children.

+ 2. i. Edward Walter Stabler, Sr.. He was born on 22 Nov 1918 in Lancaster, PA. He married Ruth Edras Lay. They were married on 13 Sep 1946 in Lancaster, PA. He died on 17 May 1975 in Tampa, FL.

  ii. Alfred Stabler. He was born on 29 Apr 1917 in PA. He died on 08 Jul 1992 in Sparks, Washoe Co, NV.

6.  Lawrence Lay is the son of Shelby Lay & Margaret Ann Younger. He was born on 18 Jun 1880 in Yellville, AR. He died on 17 Sep 1943 in Britton, Oklahoma Co, OK. Burial in Olive Hill Cemetery 45, Oklahoma City, OK.

7.  Alberta Blanche Bailey is the daughter of Rufus Miner Bailey & Elizabeth Wiser McKeage. She was born on 09 Jan 1895 in Spring Creek Twp, OT. She died on 03 Apr 1981 in Oklahoma City, OK. Also Known As was Berta. Burial in Olive Hill Cemetery 45, Oklahoma City, OK.

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Alberta Blanche Bailey
Berta and Lawrence Lay (ca. 1923)
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8.  Tarleton Brooke Stabler is the son of Frederick Stabler & Martha R. Brooke. He was born on 26 Mar 1868 in Sandy Spring, Montgomery Co, MD. He died on 27 Jan 1939.

9.  Rebecca Thomas Moore. She was born on 12 Jul 1872 in Sandy Spring, Montgomery Co, MD.

Tarleton Brooke Stabler & Rebecca Thomas Moore. They were married on 01 Sep 1892 in prob. Sandy Spring, Montgomery Co, MD. They had 3 children.

  i. Frederick Stabler. He was born May 1894 in MD.

+ 4. ii. Richard Hallett Stabler. He was born Oct 1895 in MD. He married Phoebe Louisa Strode. They were married on 08 Mar 1917.

  iii. Donald B. Stabler. He was born on 28 Oct 1899 in MD. He died Jul 1979 in West Chester, Chester Co, PA2.

 

SOURCES

 
1  Chicago Barn to Wire Arlington Notes (July 10, 2002).
2  Social Security Death Index.
3  1930 Census - OK - Elk, Oklahoma Co, p. 1B, Roll: 1917, ED: 19.
4  John Crunk's Family Tree.
5  Pat Cat Elton, Letter from Pat Cat Elton (December 28, 2002).
6  Thomas Arthur Hay, Martin Genealogy, Vol. I (14 March 1911).
7  Lola Nicholson Bailey, Genealogical Record of Rufus Miner and Elizabeth McKeage Bailey.
8  1880 Census - KS - Douglas, Jackson Co, p. 101D.
9  1860 Census - IA - Pella, Marion Co, p. 227, Roll: M653_335.
10  1870 Census - KS - Douglass, Jackson Co, p. 269, Roll: M593_435.
11  Letter from Ruth Bailey Ramsdale (September 13, 2002).
 
Genealogy last updated: Wednesday, May 31, 2017
 
OHC Relations
 
  Ruth Lay Stabler was the great-granddaughter of Olive Hand Bailey.
  The Bailey family is related by marriage with the Carson, Stickler, Sitlington, Lay,  McCallon, Hollingsworth, and Young families. 
 
Association Membership
 
 
70 May 25 1996
Douglas Stabler
(d.2002)
71 May 25 1996
Edward Stabler
Address on Record
72 May 25 1996
Dr. L Brooke Stabler
Address on Record
73 May 25 1996
Jean Stabler Poulos
Address on Record
74 May 25 1996
Betsy Stabler Franz
Address on Record